White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism
by Robin J. DiAngelo
Amazon Synopsis:
In this vital, necessary, and beautiful book, antiracist educator Robin DiAngelo deftly illuminates the phenomenon of white fragility and “allows us to understand racism as a practice not restricted to ‘bad people’. Referring to the defensive moves that white people make when challenged racially, white fragility is characterized by emotions such as anger, fear, and guilt, and by behaviors including argumentation and silence. These behaviors, in turn, function to reinstate white racial equilibrium and prevent any meaningful cross-racial dialogue. In this in-depth exploration, DiAngelo examines how white fragility develops, how it protects racial inequality, and what we can do to engage more constructively.
My review:
I purchased this book in January of this year, but was slow to crack it open. However, with current events (the killings of Breonna Taylor and George Floyd, protests, riots, the #8CantWait, etc) I felt that there was not time to delay reading it any longer.
In my graduate course work, when studying multi-culturism, our assigned textbook described, at length, how white people have no culture and are (paraphrasing here) the villians of humanity. I was slow to pick up White Fragility becuase a part of me assumed that this book may have been written by someone “a little too radical”, or maybe someone who wanted to vent about the villanous qualities of white people - and I just didn’t feel up to it.
To say that I was surprised, was the understatement of the year. I really, really enjoyed this book. It was written by an educator who helps train companies who are ready to make a more accepting multi-cultural environment. She is not only a very educated woman, but is very experienced in her field.
Diangelo described racism and my racial experience as a privleged white person in simple, but effective ways.
There was no political bend or pushy message in White Fragility.
There were some really good take aways from White Fragility:
• Understanding your position in relation to racism
• Understanding systemic problems and practices that affect people of color
• How not to impose white guilt on your friends of color
• How to better engage with people of color
• Understanding that you’re not “a racist” or “not a racist”, we all have subconscious prejudices
• How to educate yourself moving forward
(Please exuse that I am using my movie rating scale to rate this book)
This book is an absolute must read
While this book is intended to be read by white people, I think it is a worthwhile read for people of all colors to better understand how to best relate with one another.
While the book was supposed to be around a 6 hour read, it took me longer because I took breaks to reflect on the information, re-read some parts, and stopped to talk about the information with friends.
If you read one book this year - let this be it.
Get White Fragility on Amazon:
Hard Copy: https://amzn.to/2NoZX00
AudioBook: https://amzn.to/2CtRu9j
Kindle: https://amzn.to/2zXKlxl